Ask Rebecca: How do I convince my family to get tested for celiac disease?

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This begins my new Monday segment of Ask Rebecca! I will pick one question per week from the Facebook page, messages and email and answer it to the best of my ability! Today’s question comes from Facebook – Judy Grover!!

“How do I convince my family to get tested for celiac disease?

Rebecca: I honestly don’t think there is any good answer for this. Just like anything else, your family has to be on board with thinking they have a problem and be willing to get tested. The testing is expensive and can be challenging to get an accurate diagnosis. If there are no obvious symptoms, the person is also less likely to spend the money on getting the testing done. My mom didn’t end up getting tested until I nagged her for months about asking her doctor. Then when she finally did ask the doctor, he gave her inaccurate information because he was not educated on the disease. He told her because she did not have diarrhea, she didn’t need to get tested. It wasn’t until after I gave her more detailed information about all the possible symptoms and encouraged her to get tested again that she finally completed the test. The doctor (whose results I believe are suspect) told her she did not test positive for celiac disease and she didn’t need to be concerned. Again, I don’t know what tests were run or if they were even checked correctly. So, that’s the only thing I can go on. What I would encourage you to do is the following:

  • Become as educated as you can be on the disease to explain the importance of getting tested. Without being able to explain the importance and why you think they need to be tested, it’s going to be a struggle to get them to do it.
  • Remember that not everyone has it in your family just because you do! We are quick to assume everyone has it or should get tested for it because we are diagnosed, when that’s not always the case.
  • Keep your family updated on your own medical journey. Don’t be overbearing about it or make constant digs because it’s likely to backfire.
  • Don’t forget that as adults, we have the right to get our own testing done. It’s our own health and bodies and we should do what we feel is right for ourselves and not anyone else. Haven’t you ever had someone tell you to get tested for this or that when you were struggling with your symptoms? Sometimes the shoe fit and you asked your doctor, but other times you felt you didn’t have the symptoms so it wasn’t worth getting tested. We should respect our family’s rights to do what they see fit with their bodies. We can’t control how or what they do! The only thing we can be sure of is that we are treating ourselves the way we believe is happy and healthy.

Did you successfully get your family to get tested? Please leave your story below!